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FULL COURSE DIVORCE: Act Four: Scenes Two & Three

Sunday, January 24th, 2010
In these two scenes, Kate seems to be gaining back some of her confidence, so the pictures I chose are those of flowers or flowering trees, since flowers are a sign that winter has passed and spring has come.

Act Four

Scene Two

Six months later

Kate

(Talking to her sister from her apt. in N.Jersey outside  NY)

School is hard, but I love it. We visited a newspaper here and spoke to some of the editors. I had a chance to speak to the food editor, since that’s my focus. She actually shares a job with a male editor and they look at the restaurant and food scene from the male/female angle.

Pat

That’s great! And how is Bekka doing in her new school?

Kate

She’s made some new friends and she misses her old ones. So do I.

Pat

Yes, but you’ve got each other to lean on. That’s important.

Kate

Right! You know she’s a night owl and I’m a morning person. Getting her up in the morning is a major chore. Then at night she wants to talk and all I can do is mumble. But she’s a good kid and I am so happy she’s with me. When she visits Mitch, it always takes her a day or two to get back to herself. He’s dating someone now and the last time she was at his place, the woman slept over. Bekka said she knocked on their door to ask Mitch something and when she went in, his girlfriend was holding the blanket under her arms and was obviously naked underneath. She really got upset.

Pat

Bekka only goes there on week-ends once a month. Can’t he keep his pecker in his pocket on that one week-end? God! Men!

Kate

I know. I can’t even think about dating yet. But I did speak to my old boyfriend Harvey in Florida and he invited me for a visit. He’s been divorced 10 years.

Pat

If you want to go over a long week-end, I’ll watch Bekka.

Kate

Thanks. Let me think about it. Harvey was really sweet on the phone. He let me cry on his shoulder a little.

Pat

Good. Just don’t have a pity party if you go down there. Go to have a good time.

Kate

I know. I’ve spent the last six months feeling sorry for myself and that’s over. I’m ready to return to the land of the living.

Pat

Great! Oops, gotta go. I have a customer. Speak to you later. Love ya!

Kate

Love you, too. ‘Bye.

End of Scene Two



ACT FOUR

Scene Three

Middle of Courtroom Procedure

Bill

Your honor, six months ago my client was awarded child support and alimony as part of the divorce agreement. Included in that agreement was the ruling that Mr. Mitchell would also pay the premium on the one remaining insurance policy that the bank did not take as part of Mr. and Mitchell’s business. Mr. Mitchell negotiated with the bank to save this one policy to pay for his youngest daughter’s college education in the event he died before she completed her education. Now he refuses to pay that premium. My client, Mrs. Mitchell, would like to explain why.

Judge

Mrs. Mitchell, remember you are under oath.

Kate

Yes, your honor.

Soon after our divorce, my husband, that is, my ex-husband called to ask me if I would allow him to change the insurance policy from whole life to term, because the premiums on whole life were too high. I agreed so long as the conditions of the first policy were maintained. Then he called back a couple of days later to tell me he wanted to add $10,000 to the policy that would be designated to his new wife. He married right after our divorce was finalized.

I called my lawyer Bill and he advised me to tell Mitch that if he wanted to insure his new wife, he should take out a separate policy for her. I relayed that information to Mitch and he was so angry with my answer that he told me from now on I would have to pay the premium, if I wanted the policy to stay intact. I did so when the first bill came, but I am working only part-time and also in school, so I really don’t have the funds to continue to do this. When I called Bill about making payments for my divorce proceedings and told him what happened, he said he would set up a court date to bring this to you, since he is obliged to pay the premium.

Judge

Mr. Mitchell, the fact that you have a new wife is of no concern of this court. However, the fact that you have violated the agreement so soon after the divorce is of great concern to this court. Do you have anything to say before I make my ruling?

Mitch

Just that I am also strapped for money, what with the bankruptcy, a new wife, a new job. The premiums on two separate policies are too much for me.

Judge

Sorry. The ruling from your divorce still holds. You agreed to the stipulations of the divorce and whatever financial problems you may have because of your new situation are irrelevant. In fact, you could be fined for not paying the premium, but since you are going to have to pay for these court proceedings, I believe that will be fine enough.

You are hereby required to keep the agreement of the divorce for the new policy. I see here that the term policy payment is only $100 per quarter ,as opposed to $300 per quarter for the former whole life policy. Your wife is generous enough to accept the change in policy, so I do not think it is too much to ask that you pay this premium. In addition to the court fees, you are also required to send Mrs. Mitchell a check within ten days for the premium she already paid for you. Is that clear?

Mitch

Yes, your honor. (Looks down at the floor.)

Judge

Case dismissed.

Mitch leaves and Kate & Bill stay to talk over the hearing.

Bill

Congratulations, Kate. If for some reason the check Mitch is supposed to send you does not arrive within 10 days, please call my office.

Kate

Thanks so much, Bill. These last six months have been rough, especially with his remarriage before the ink on our divorce was dry. He wouldn’t even buy Bekka a new dress for the event. He said he could only buy her a blouse. I had to borrow a dressy skirt from a friend. And then he refused to pay this premium. I’m glad I called your office.

Bill

So am I. Don’t be afraid to be strong on matters that you know you are right.

Kate

My older sister has been divorced for a long time. She said she had to grow a full set of nails to get what she had earned in her marriage. Then she told me it was time for me to grow mine.

Bill

That’s an interesting metaphor for strength— a full set of nails. I’ll have to remember that! Take care, Kate.

Kate

I will, and thanks!   (Kate leaves with a small smile on her face.)

End of Scene Three


Full Course Divorce: Act Four: Scene One

Thursday, January 21st, 2010

Act Four

Full Set of Nails

Scene One

This scene takes place in the courtroom. It’s the last of Kate’s “trial by fire” as she negotiates for what she can get to survive as a single mother. Her lawyer’s name is Bill.

Note: Since this is Kate’s “trial by fire” courtroom scene, I downloaded “fire pictures.”


Kate

Bill, I don’t think I can take any more of this bullshit. Mitch is lying right and left. He is accusing me of adultery, when both of us agreed to an open marriage concept, which obviously did not work.

Bill

Look, Kate, your husband went bankrupt and you have lost everything. Let me at least get you some decent alimony and child support for you and Bekka until you get on your feet.

Kate

OK. But my heart is pounding and my stomach is churning and my head feels like a bowling bowl with two holes leaking all my common sense.

Bill

I promise it will only be a few minutes longer.

(Addresses the Court)

Your honor, my client will be leaving the area to look for a job in New York. She has custody of their daughter and will need to reestablish herself financially, so we ask the court to be generous with child support and alimony.

Mitch

(blurting out of order)

But, your honor, she ‘s an adulteress!

Judge

(addressing Mitch’s lawyer)

Your client is out of order. (Pause) I don’t know if this allegation is true, Mr. Mitchell. But since you are here for a no-fault divorce, this issue is irrelevant, Besides, even adulteresses have to eat!

Bill

Thank you, your honor. We realize that Mr. Mitchell is bankrupt, but Mrs. Mitchell was his partner for 15 years in the business, so his loss is hers as well. She has been out of her field for almost two decades and will have to start all over again. She plans to return to college for a master’s degree in journalism.

Judge

That’s very admirable, but in Mr. Mitchell’s financial situation, which I reviewed last night, he cannot be expected to pay for his wife’s education. His alimony and child support reflect his current situation and will be re-evaluated in six months.

To Mitch: Mr. Mitchell, I have reviewed you current job income and household expenses, based on the financial statement your lawyer submitted. I believe you have an obligation to your family and award your wife $150 week alimony and $75 week child support for the next six months. Then it will be reviewed.

Mitch

But, your honor….(His lawyer indicates him to be quiet with a shake of his head.)

Judge

Your first payment of $225 is due in 10 days, then each week thereafter on the first Monday of each week. Is that clear?

Mitch

Yes, your honor.

Judge

All the other terms we discussed will be spelled out in my report, which your lawyers will receive in 10 days to two weeks. Case dismissed.

After the court hearing, Kate goes limp and puts her head between her hands, face down, so she does not have to look at Mitch. Her lawyer pats her on the back and whispers something to her. She nods and he leaves. Kate takes out her cell phone and calls her sister.

Kate

Pat, it’s over. I was awarded $225 a week for the next 6 months; then a review. But the house, the business, and the furniture are gone with the bankruptcy.

Pat

Oh, I’m sorry, sis. But now you are free to move back to New York and go to school.

Kate

I didn’t tell the court I had already been accepted to journalism school and had a full scholarship based on my income.

Pat

Now you’re getting smart. The less Mitch knows, the better, because he will only use it against you later.

Kate

I can’t believe how vindictive he was! I never thought he would be so mean in court.

Pat

Fear will do that.

Kate

Fear of what? That I was going to get a lot of alimony? Or ask for my shares in the corporation? Like I told him when he gave me a million shares at $1.00 each while the business was going under: “Mitch, a million times zero is still zero.”

Pat

You’ve got that right. Now, how ‘bout if I treat you and Bekka for dinner? Joe is on a business trip and won’t be back until tomorrow.

Kate

That sounds great! You know Bekka loves Chinese food, so how about if we go to that new restaurant in town?

Pat

Gotcha! I’ll met you there a little before six and I’ll make a reservation. It’s a new restaurant so it’s likely to be busy. Everybody in town is trying it.

Kate

OK. See you later. Thanx, sis.

End of Scene One

End of Scene One, Act Four

FULL COURSE DIVORCE: Act Three: Scene Two

Tuesday, January 19th, 2010

Act Three

Scene Two

Note: Again, winter pictures to reflect the mood, but a speck of sunlight may bring some changes.

Next Morning at Louise and Hank’s.

In this scene, Kate goes to Louise and Hank’s house for two days while Bekka is with Mitch. She cries a lot and they talk a lot and she sleeps on and off. But she asks the dr. for something to help her sleep, so at night she does not wake up terrified. She helsp Louise chop vegetables for the school fair and chops with a vengeance. It eases her anxiety…

Louise

Kate, do you feel up to helping chop veggies for the school fair?

Kate

Yes, I took the prescription the doctor gave me and slept really well. Hank’s bringing me over yesterday was really sweet of him. I really didn’t want to spend the night alone. Mitch will be bringing Bekka back after dinner tonite, so I can go home then.

Louise

Look, Kate, this is going to be a difficult time for you, so let people help you. I know you like to be independent, but learning how to accept help from people who care is important.

Kate

Yeah, I know. It’s just that I feel embarrassed about all of this. I never thought I’d be a statistic! I also feel angry and sad and confused.

Louise

Don’t you think that’s somewhat par for the course, considering what you’ve been through these last few months? Give yourself a break.

Kate

OK. You’re right. I guess I better make an appointment with my therapist. She’s been working with me all during the separation and I need to tell her what’s going on. She’s been very supportive.

Louise

Good! I believe that professional help is also important, because friends aren’t always objective and sometimes they give bad advice, even though they are well-meaning.

Kate

You’re right about that! I’ve been guilty of that myself, giving advice out of concern when I am not even sure what the person is feeling. Well, better give me the stuff to chop if we’re going to get the dishes ready for the fair.

Kate begins to chop quite vigorously. Louise says nothing. She figures it’s Kate’s way of getting rid of some of her hurt and anger. They work quietly for awhile.

Louise

(laughing)

You only have to chop the vegetables Kate, not massacre them!

Kate

(smiling)

Oh, right! I guess I was thinking how angry Mitch made me and I took it out on the vegetables.

Louise

Well, at least you’re smiling! For the last few weeks you’ve had a long face.

Kate

I know. These last few months have been my trial by fire. I thought I could work magic and put our marriage back together, but Mitch hasn’t really tried very hard. I feel as though I’ve been drowning and now I’m all the way under.

Louise

Kate, you have done everything to make your marriage work. I know you sent Mitch away the first time, but that was for your own survival. You’ve been to couples counseling, separate counseling, read a dozen books on relationships, and worked hard to help Mitch with the financial problems of the business. I think you have done as much as you could and if Mitch doesn’t make an effort, you’re just blowin’ in the wind.

Kate

You’re right. It’s just that I never even thought I’d be married and the idea of divorce is so scary. It feels hopeless. When you’re together, struggling, there’s still the element of hope. But divorce erases that hope.

Louise

But maybe your time together is over and you need to hope for a better future with or without a man.

Kate

Theoretically, I agree. But the ache in my heart doesn’t let me think rationally.

Louise

That’s why I’m glad you will be seeing your therapist. She’ll keep you on track.

Speaking of on track, I think we have enough vegetables for the stew, so let’s take a break and go out for a walk while the sun is still shining. The exercise will do us both good!

Kate

Good idea! I read in one of my books that exercise is a good way to ward off depression. Let’s go before I kill more vegetables.

Louise gives Kate a quick hug with one arm over Kate’s shoulder as they walk out the door with the stew cooking on the stove.

End of Act Three

Full Course Divorce: A Playette

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010

Note: Here is the first act of a “playettte” that I wrote; it is semi-autobiographical. I hope it rings some bells that can now be silenced into serenity.

Also, the photos are by Dale Chihuly, famous glass blower. Some are from a permanent installation at the Delaware Museum and others are from his wonderful website. To see more of this wondrous glass, go to: www.chihuly.com. Since marriage is so fragile, I thought pictures of glass might be appropriate for the play.

ellensue

Full Course Divorce

© 2010

A Playette in Four Acts

Act One: Going Under

Act Two: In Over Her Head

Act 3: Drowning

Act 4:Full Set of Nails

Act One: Scene One

Going Under

Kate and Mitch’s Bedroom

Kate
(Pacing and Enraged)

Get out! Get out! Get out of my sight! Less than 12 hours have passed since you told Norma you would take care of me when I hurt my leg. I’m bleeding, have terrible cramps, and can’t stand on my feet and you ask me why I didn’t ask for a drink of water with the Midol? What are you, a sadist?

Mitch
(Embarrassed)

I’m sorry, Kate. It’s just that I am so tired and you woke me out of a sound sleep….

Kate
(Almost in tears)

Ya know, Mitch, you’ve run out of excuses. There’s always a reason for your being mean, but I can’t accept your apologies anymore. They’re like the boy who cried wolf once too often. Your “I’m sorrys” don’t mean shit! Just get out!

Mitch
(Resigned)

OK, I’ll go to the cabin for a couple of days while you cool off.

Kate
(Strong)

No, Mitch. I want you to move out. We talked about a trial separation and I think this is the time to try it, before we are so angry with each other that one of us just files for divorce. I want to save our marriage, but right now I need some time and space to think things through.

Mitch
(Almost speechless)

But what about Bekka? What will you tell her?

Kate
(Still strong)

The truth, for once! She’ll be 14 soon, She knows what’s been going on between us. She’s got eyes and ears. Fortunately, she’s still upstairs sleeping. I always let her sleep in on Saturdays.

Mitch
(Concerned)

Ok. Then I will stop by later to see her and talk to her myself.

Kate
(No longer angry)

That sounds good. In fact, why not take her out for dinner. I’m still working on some of the recipes for my cooking column and I could use a couple of uninterrupted hours to get the recipes into the computer.

Mitch
(Still concerned)

Can I call you from the cabin?

Kate

Just come here by 6 o’clock to pick up Bekka. That will give me time to talk to her and time for me to get rid of these cramps. God, I wish I was menopausal!! Kate allows Mitch to help her back into bed and hook up the heating pad for her cramps. He quietly gets dressed and packs a few items. Her anger spent, Kate speaks kindly.

Kate

Please don’t take all your clothes while Bekka is here. Wait until Monday after she goes to school. I think it will really upset her to see you pack.

Mitch

I think that’s a good idea. Can we still see Norma for our counseling session?

Kate
(Becoming exasperated again)

Mitch, I just don’t know. Let me get through this weekend and see from there.

Mitch

Oh, all right, I’ll go….for now.

Mitch gathers a few things and quietly closes the bedroom door and leaves. Once the door is closed, Kate cries softly as the scene ends.


Act One: Scene Two

(six months later)

Local Coffee Shop

Kate
(Hesitant)

Thanks for meeting me, Mitch. We’ve both been avoiding seeing each other, but I think I can talk now without getting angry.

Mitch

I know what you mean. I was so angry when you kicked me out I didn’t know what to do with myself. But the cabin is comfortable and I get to see Bekka a lot.  And we’re not fighting. So that’s good!

Kate
(Still hesitant)

Well, that’s what I wanted to talk to you about. I’d like to give our marriage another chance. We’ve put 28 years into this thing, raised two kids and are still raising Bekka. I don’t want to throw it all away without giving it another try. My therapist thinks it’s worth a try. What do you think Norma will say?

Mitch

Sometimes I don’t want to go to Norma. I felt we should both still use her for marriage counseling.

Kate

I know you do. But she seemed to favor you and I wanted unbiased counseling.

Mitch

Well, at the last session we had together, she seemed to think divorce was our only recourse.

Kate

That’s one reason I changed and now go to Sandy. I thought Norma was wrong in implying divorce was the only answer. Therapists aren’t really supposed to give advice. They’re just supposed to help you make up your own mind after seeing all the options. Actually, Mitch, I think Norma has a thing for you.

Mitch

Don’t be ridiculous!

Kate

Listen, lots of therapists have affairs with their clients. It’s unprofessional and not part of the training, but it happens. But I don’t care about Norma’s feelings towards you. I care about your feelings towards me.

Mitch

I don’t know, Kate. You kicked me out once and that really pissed me off. I’m beginning to feel that the article you read to me about separate but equal accommodations for long-term marriages might work for us. I kinda like being footloose and fancy-free.

Kate
(Controlling her anger)

With my friends! Bev and Marti already told me you practically propositioned them. Can’t you find your own women?

Mitch
(Smiling)

Jealous?

Kate
(Annoyed)

No, actually, the operative word here would be embarrassed. They have been our friends for years, and now that we are separated, you want to hit on them? It’s embarrassing!

Mitch

Sorry, when we made the agreement that we could date during our trial separation, we never said whom we could date.

Kate

True. But I never dreamed would ask our friends for a date, Now they are embarrassed to call me and I am embarrassed to call them. During times of troubles, women stick together and confide in one another. You have made that more difficult for me.

Mitch

I apologize for making your friendship more difficult, but not for asking them out, They are single and free to date, although no one accepted, probably because of your friendship for them. So I think you are safe to assume your relationships are intact.

Kate

I sure hope so. More importantly, I think we have a long history with our marriage and should give it a second chance. (She touches his arm.)

Mitch

I will do it on one condition. We make a list of what to do in the event this should not work out, so there are no ambiguities.

Kate

Like what?

Mitch

Well, for example, rules about dating while waiting for the divorce so we don’t run into this problem again about your friends. A list of who gets what, if we do divorce. How we work out child support and child custody.

Kate

Isn’t this list a little premature? I was hoping that getting back together would mean staying together.

Mitch

Sorry, I don’t share your sentiments. We can have a trial period of getting back together and review it every few weeks and then make a decision based on the next few months together.

Kate

I like the idea of reviewing our relationship every few weeks. But I want to make a commitment that we try to work this out, and if for some reason it doesn’t, you’ll at least stay for Bekka’s graduation from grammar school.

Mitch

I agree. This separation has been hard enough for her. I don’t think we should disrupt her life any more than necessary.

Kate

Thanks, I hoped you would agree to that. (Awkwardly) Well, when would you like to move back in?

Mitch

School starts next week and I would like to be here when Bekka begins, so how about if I clean up the cabin the next few days and move in over the week-end? Maybe we can go to the shore and spend Labor Day week-end as a family.

Kate
(Relieved)

I think that would be great! Bekka will be happy.

Mitch

And you?

Kate

Excited and scared, but ready to try!

(Tentatively, Kate and Mitch move towards each other and hug as both this scene and Act One end.)

Note: Act Two will be posted over the week-end.